The most important relationship you will have in your life is your intimate relationship – whether that’s a marriage or other arrangement. And the fact that you are in a relationship is not necessarily cause for celebration. Too often it is a cause for pain.
What should be the mainstay and backbone to your existence, is in many cases a troublesome problem that eats away at your other joys in life. It doesn’t matter if you have got a fantastic career, if you are fabulously wealthy, if your friends are the best in the world; if your relationship sucks then you are miserable.
One in three marriages in Australia end in divorce, and typically around half of all divorces are in families where there are children under 18 years of age. Now add to that the defacto or common law relationships that end and you have some pretty alarming statistics. Divorce and separation do not just affect the partners in the relationship. They affect any children of the relationship, as well as generations that follow. And that is not the only casualty – divorce is notorious for destroying one’s finances, now and into the future, through division of assets, legal fees, and child support.
But I am here to tell you if you are looking at ending your relationship, whether it is your choice or not, the future doesn’t have to be so grim. There is a way to put the life back into your relationship, give you back your sanity, win you back the respect of your children and other family, safeguard your assets and put the juice back into your relationship and your life. You see, if you are suffering at the wrong end of a bad relationship, it’s not your fault.
When we were young, we were taught many things. We were taught how to walk, how to spell, how to add up, how to use our minds and make decisions, and many other useful things that get us through our life. But one thing we were never taught, and that is how to have success in our intimate relationships.
And so, we bravely embark on our journey of life, seeking love, excitement and fulfillment, and often believe we have found our soul-mate and that they will fill that empty space within us. And then we wake up one day and can’t quite believe we were so wrong and the person we chose to commit our lives to isn’t quite up to scratch. We spend our days listing their faults, being exasperated by their habits and their stubborn refusal to conform to our idea of how they should be. And the scary thing is that often the relationship that we find ourselves in faintly reminds us of something – that’s right, we have turned into one or both of our parents!
Or conversely, we reverse our parents’ example, for good or ill. But you know what, that is entirely normal – how can you expect to enjoy a passionate, exciting and loving relationship if you were never shown how?
Now you may be one of the lucky few that had ideal role models for such a relationship in your parents, but then you wouldn’t be reading this page would you?
If your relationship is on its last legs, you probably will end it eventually, swearing that all men/women are the same and so on, only to find yourself eventually in another relationship, that again becomes unsatisfactory because the problem wasn’t the other person after all – it was just that you didn’t have the skills and understanding that go towards ensuring a fantastic relationship.
And that is what Rescue Your Relationship is all about. We are here to provide you with little-known but proven tools, strategies and real help to get your relationship to better than it ever was.
That is our guarantee.
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